Friday, May 29, 2009

And so, just like that it is over. With a thumb impression and a hastily jotted signature on court paper. No goodbyes. A clean break is perhaps the best of all. I watch their marriage dissolve and think how different the end is from the beginning.

The beginning is handmade paper cards and an afternoon spent dotting them with haldi and sindoor. It's metres of brocade making their way to the must-have tailor and fat gold bangles balanced by delicate platinum rings. Benarasis at Gariahat market and Central Avenue for kundan work gergettes and crepes. It's train tickets booked in bulk to a different city and a red suitcase packed to the gill with zardozi, satin and cosmetics. The beginning is excitement, expectations and trepidation.

The end is simple and governmental. Stamp paper, photocopies, and attestations. Dry and monotonous. The contrast struck me the most. Ironical (or perhaps fitting?)that something which starts with so much abundance should end with so little of it.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Sigh. Hope it's for their best.

-Hek

Hornswoggler said...

Yes Hek, it is.

SwB said...

Holy shit, is that Hekate?? I remember reading her blog ages ago!!

Nice post Rash, you're quite the writer. Oh yeah I forgot, you are a writer! :)

Hornswoggler said...

SWB: Yes that is Hekate. The very same :). And thank you very much.

Leela A said...

Beautiful

Mama - Mia said...

beautiful and poignant!